We have examined how to identify toxic relationships. God willing we will examine the cost of such friendships in our lives. Loose ends and shifting standards are evident in today’s Christianity. Whether it is pressures from the LGBT community, abortions, sexual perversions, addictions, pornography etc. The Truth remains the Truth no matter how many denominations […]
Bible Reading: 2 Samuel 13:1-20, Esther 5:1- 14 and Esther 6:1-13 Proverbs 13:20 A lot of us have fallen victim of toxic relationships that were once rosy sugar-coated ties. We have once sympathised with those who had harmful intentions towards us. In our ignorance we have fallen prey to their deceit. Prayer: Oh Lord, deliver […]
When one of my young protegee shared with me her father’s advice, “You only need three people, a guardian, a mentor and a business partner”, it got me thinking. I guess her father was trying to teach her about building intentional friendships. Perhaps, he forgot to mention she also needs three more people: someone she […]
When his friend passed away, David’s love for his friend did not die too. Today we see David’s faithfulness and love to his friend. He mourned deeply for his loss. And never forgot the covenant they both made with each other. This story reminds me of a similar real life encounter. A few years ago […]
When friendship develops between the prince and the shepherd no one could tell how much love they had between them. Jonathan, the prince would risk his life, his birthright, his father’s love for this lowly shepherd boy. Despite differences in their age, social status, wealth or position in the army, both men form strong bond. […]
“I don’t need friends” said no wise woman ever….. Your circle of friends may be members of your family regardless of intergenerational gaps. Grandma Ann is my friend and she is so full of wisdom. As a teen, I ran into a few troubles. Whenever such weighty matters arose, I found it safe to talk […]
My bestie was Cameroonian. When she died I was left heartbroken. Picking up pieces of what was left of our friendship was hard. During her pain and sickness, we had prayed and hoped for that miracle. But God had better plans: taking her home. What I have to cherish are fond memories, pictures, laughter and […]
I needed one compelling reason to wave goodbye to that friend. Deep down I knew our principles didn’t align but I was willing to hold on to it. Why? Perhaps it was fear, or was it the thoughts of how much memories and ties we have had together? Not until her actions confronted me with […]
Have you done this before, going to your favorite store, and asking for your Christmas freebie or discount? Or looked through the catalogue for shops having Christmas sale? I admit I have done that too! Unfortunately, Christmas has been equated to freebies, promos, commercials and ads. The malls are out to woo buyers, make more […]
What is the biggest lie you’ve ever heard about your life? Which lies taunts you? Quite frankly, I heard a lot to last a life time. Whether in marriage and marital choices, or family life, or in parenting, or health, lies foster and thrive on fears and insecurity. Lies establish control on their victims. But […]