God never imposes anything on us. Friendship is a choice. Through the Word, God shows us the rewards or consequences of our choices that is, what lies ahead of the path we choose, good or bad, life or death. His instructions are life and wisdom to all who follow them. This week we have seen […]
We have examined how to identify toxic relationships. God willing we will examine the cost of such friendships in our lives. Loose ends and shifting standards are evident in today’s Christianity. Whether it is pressures from the LGBT community, abortions, sexual perversions, addictions, pornography etc. The Truth remains the Truth no matter how many denominations […]
Bible Reading: 2 Samuel 13:1-20, Esther 5:1- 14 and Esther 6:1-13 Proverbs 13:20 A lot of us have fallen victim of toxic relationships that were once rosy sugar-coated ties. We have once sympathised with those who had harmful intentions towards us. In our ignorance we have fallen prey to their deceit. Prayer: Oh Lord, deliver […]
When one of my young protegee shared with me her father’s advice, “You only need three people, a guardian, a mentor and a business partner”, it got me thinking. I guess her father was trying to teach her about building intentional friendships. Perhaps, he forgot to mention she also needs three more people: someone she […]
When his friend passed away, David’s love for his friend did not die too. Today we see David’s faithfulness and love to his friend. He mourned deeply for his loss. And never forgot the covenant they both made with each other. This story reminds me of a similar real life encounter. A few years ago […]
When friendship develops between the prince and the shepherd no one could tell how much love they had between them. Jonathan, the prince would risk his life, his birthright, his father’s love for this lowly shepherd boy. Despite differences in their age, social status, wealth or position in the army, both men form strong bond. […]
“I don’t need friends” said no wise woman ever….. Your circle of friends may be members of your family regardless of intergenerational gaps. Grandma Ann is my friend and she is so full of wisdom. As a teen, I ran into a few troubles. Whenever such weighty matters arose, I found it safe to talk […]
My bestie was Cameroonian. When she died I was left heartbroken. Picking up pieces of what was left of our friendship was hard. During her pain and sickness, we had prayed and hoped for that miracle. But God had better plans: taking her home. What I have to cherish are fond memories, pictures, laughter and […]
I needed one compelling reason to wave goodbye to that friend. Deep down I knew our principles didn’t align but I was willing to hold on to it. Why? Perhaps it was fear, or was it the thoughts of how much memories and ties we have had together? Not until her actions confronted me with […]
I didn’t understand the reason for her unrestrained and persistent concern for the friends I had. I thought it was my choice who I let in. But I was wrong! Thankfully, my mom was looking out for me. Everything from acquaintances to friendships and more advanced relationships impact not only us but those around, directly […]