Words We Speak

I like strawberries, grapes and
bananas they make me happy. Just the same way, I really like my hubby wrapping
me around when we sleep. I feel warm and secured and sometimes like to curl myself
up closer to him. 

We all know how that makes us glad being cuddled up. In the
same vein, men also like to feel special and warm in the loving hands of their spouse.
I also feel appreciated when he eats his homemade meal coked with love, and
give good compliments about it. 

We all appreciate loving compliments and
constructive criticisms from our beloved husbands. Even if he doesn’t do some
of those things you can start. When you give love you will get it back. Trust me this
works.

A man that has friends must show himself friendly…” Proverbs 18:24.

 To be your husband’s friend, you also must be
friendly not a nag or a complaint, or a fault finder. There is always something
nice about your spouse. This does not mean we become vain with flattering just
to get something out of our spouses, and then it becomes exploitative.

I usually take a second thought
when I have to discuss a problem with my spouse. I think of the best
way of discussing an issue without hurting him in anyway. 

The tone and manner
of our approach as a wife matters a lot. That why the bible says with our good
conduct we can win over an unbelieving spouse.

Wives, in the same way be submissive to
your husbands’ so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won
over without words by the behavior of their wives.
(1 Peter 3:1).

Words can either
make you or mar you.
 

The Bible says a soft answer turns away wrath Proverbs
15:1. Knowing what to say, when to say it and how to say it, is wisdom.

Even our kids’
love praises. When done with love and carefully fashioned words, it makes our
home peaceful, blissful and fun filled. Speak positively to your life, your
spouse, your kids and your home.

 A wise woman builds her home not
tear it down with her hands Proverbs 14:1. So be wise.

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Thanks for reading and God Bless

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